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I have to tell her husband!
Hi..I recorded her voice when we last spoke (evidence for her husband)..I have to tell him..told my wife tonight (though I omitted certain details). I know it`s wrong but yesterday I took 15 painkillers, I know I`ll only damage my liveer but I`m getting more desperate and more brave by the day. I may take more soon, and that might just end me. How can someone say they love you then say they never want to hear from you again (unless they actually didn`t love you in the first instance)..I also need to take a test as I know she has slept around a lot. I met her husband and he seems like a throughly decent man, but she does`nt know I met him. I really felt awful, actually I felt like the cheating philandering bastard I am. But how can I not tell him, and I also have some proof now as well. She doesn`t say anything graphic or lewd in the recording, we just argue, but it`s enough to show him that when and if I tell him, he`ll believe me. Of course her husband doesn`t know who I am. I`m desperate and this is a plea for help, for my life. Shall I tell him? I think I have no choice now. I have opened up to my wife and I realise I will have to tell her everything if I tell her husband but theres no other way of ending my pain, other than death. I am terrified of dying but can`t see past my pain. Please help!
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I think you will fell better once you get it off your chest and tell her husband. To me, it seems like you feel guilty but you have to tell her husband. He will feel hurt and betrayed but he deserves to know. Also, you shouldn't end your life. You know you made a mistake and now you are fixing it. You have to just not do it again and learn from them. Everybody does soemthing in life that they regret no matter how bad that may be. Your spouses will feel very bad and not want to talk to you, but at least you told them and you didn't let them find out the hard way. At least you are being honest. Everything will get better in time and you will eventually let that girl go. I know she means a lot to you right now, but time helps and it will get better. I hope this helps and if you have any other questions, just message me!!
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