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HIS FINGERS FELT LIKE KNIVES
okay, the subject was a little extremee....but whatever
this guy fingereed me tonight. were just friends it was a one night thing and its not bad so dont tell me that lalala. i stopped everything after like 5 minutes and we were under a blanket and not alone so nothing bad could have happened. He fingered me. it was the first time anyone ever did. IT HURT. i was nervous and when he did it hurt so it made me more nervous. my legs were like clamping it was horrible. whyd it hurt so much?! thank you. and ive never put in a tampon before adn stuff...thanks.
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It is likely your vagina is tight because you never have had anything inserted into it. Another reason is because you were clamping up, which will make all of your muscles tense, including your vagina. It could be that he was doing it too fast, or that he had long fingernails. It could be any number of reasons, but the important thing is that you didn't enjoy it. The next time you are intimate with a person you have to let him know if you need him to go a little easier, or whatever. You might be uncomfortable giving directions, but he could probably tell that there was something wrong, too, he just couldn't figure out what it was. Guys tend to like things rougher than girls do, and they will do it that way thinking it is what feels good. If you don't seem to be liking what they are doing, they will try to go even faster and harder. If it ever happens again say something like, "Be gentle, it is delicate," and he will get the picture. Sex is supposed to feel pretty good, but even if it doesn't feel good, it DEFINATELY isn't supposed to hurt.
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No, there is nothing wrong with letting a man finger you. It's just if you were unsure I'd of suggested not to, but anywho sence it has happened, and you fet uncomfortable...
Perhaps sence you've never had anything up there it could be that, you should try plesuring yourself to find out what it's like and what you like, before attempting to let another man or anyone do anything to your privates.
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