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Myspace compared to inperson .
People always say to me on myspace or your gorgeous your beautiful and your so pretty . I dont really feel that people see me that same way in person . I feel that im getting more complements on a website then i do in real life . In person some people say oh you wear too much makeup oh your nose is wierd and youve got acne and all of that i sometimes find myself that im never pretty anymore .... That im only pretty in picture then i am otherwise . Is there any real reason why i feel this way ? Help please ? .
-torii babiiee *
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Online personalities and real life personalaties differ.
It's easier to tell a girl she is hot on the web with no danger of getting shot down or a slap in the face.
So take that to heart. People probably feel the same in real life, but dont have the guts to say it in person.
Myspace is a playground anyway, so for every hour you spend on it, spend two hours going out with friends
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We always question other peoples' opinions of ourselves, it's normal. But what's most important is how you view yourself. If your happy with the way you look, whether in person or in a picture, then that's what matters most. And as far as the people who judge you in person, everybody has acne at some point, so I'm sure they do too =]
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Everyone gets self concious, or has that type of problem (including me.) If I were you, I would brush it off, people saying that to you are more than likely very jealous. If you are happy with who you are, then stay that way, and never change. If you are that insecure, you can always ask your mom for a true opinion or someone that you really trust, like a best friend. But even thier opinion shouldnt change you if you are happy. Getting down on yourself is feeding everyone that is jealous of you, and makes them happier. They are no different then bullies.
Good Luck, and just remember that if you are happy with yourself, then there is no reason you shouldnt be happy. I know its hard sweety, but you have to hold your head up high. :-)
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