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How can I overcome the situation of total backstabbing friends?
im a girl 17 from Hondurasand my bf is 17 as well. Here´s the deal. She had a bf called dorian. out of the blue he started texting me very weird, seductive, erotic texts directly saying that he wanted to have sex with me. Two other guy friends also did this on the same day. Of course I said no and I tried to ignore the situation and just let it go. I would´ve told my friend but i dont see her that much and i didnt have her phone but i did tell a very good friend of ours everything to ask her for advice. A few days later my friend found out and her BF is now blaming the whole thing on me. I talked to my friend and thank god she believes me because she knows me. She also told me that her bf said that it was all a bet between him and the other two boys that had texted me. I felt so mad at them because they were supposed to be my friends. Now the three guys are trying to blame everything on me saying that I wanted to steal her bf calling me a slut. Yeah number 1 i already have a bf, 2 i told someon about the messages which i wouldnt have done if i was trying to seduce him. It just really sucks cause i thought they were my friends but they only treated me like a piece of meat and almost caused the end of a very important friendship. Now they´re probably trying to save themselves spreading the rumor that I tried to steal her bf. What do I do? people might believe them more because i dont hang out with many of our friends anymore due to school as well as parental control. please help me
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the people that care about you and are close to you either not even think you would do that, ask you or stick up for you right away. dont worry too much about it, if your friend believes you it doesn't matter, but for people just randomly asking about the rumor I would just deny the whole thing from the start and ask them what they're talking about.. good luck
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Ignore them. You know that you didnt do that. Why put your self through the stress and drama of them? Your friends believes that you didn't try to steal her boyfriend that is all that mattters.
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