lovesong answered Tuesday January 27 2009, 1:23 pm: It's normal to want to. A lot of people want to at your age. I did. But, of course, my advice is to wait. Your body is going through so many changes right now and it can't make up it's mind which way it's going.
Have you ever boiled an egg? Did you ever crack one up early? Half of it is cooked and rest is runny and gross. Why? Because it's not ready. But if you wait till it's done, you have this awesome food you can eat. This may be a weird illustration, but my point is, if you wait till your body is done making the changes it need to make (from a young lady to a woman), then you are going to have this awesome body that is actually ready for sex. If you do it too soon, you won't be runny and gross like the egg, but your emotions will.
In other words, your mind and body are just not ready to handle it right now. Trust me, it's worth waiting.
But, if you have unusually high urges to have sex, almost like you feel you will burst if you don't have sex, talk to an adult you trust. You may need to see a doctor. There are some conditions that can make have an overwhelming feeling to have sex.
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