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overcoming fear of being sexual
so im 18/f
i would consider myself pretty, i have confidence and i have alot of guy friends but i've never had a boyfriend and i haven't gone past making out!! the thing is, i want to. now i'm not saying sex but other things. it's like i get so horny to the point where i'm about to do something and then i push the guy away because i feel like it would be awkward! i know that if i do something once, i will be fine doing anything after. it's just getting over the fear of doing anything. it's like learning to ride a bike for the first time, when you have the courage to try it and get on the bike, you will be fine afterwards. okay that might sound dorky, but i'm just saying :) i would just like experiences about peoples first time being sexual, NOT SEX but other things. you dont have to tell me exactly what happened but i would like to know how you overcame it. i know people say, you have to feel comfortable with the person and really like them but there is this guy and he is my best friend and i'm so comfortable with him but maybe i'm just not so comfortable with my body, i just dont know!
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Well, I don't know much about this because I'm 14 (15 in one wekk ^_^). But if a guy is already making out with you, he must like you and would probably know what you /sort of/ looked like underneath your clothes, so don't worry and I think its normal for people to be nervous. Like I am nervous talking to a guy, but I'm a bit of a nerd and haven't kissed a guy yet. ><"
Oh and remember to use protection and you can still catch an STI (STD) from oral and anal sex. Hope this helped a bit
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Oh trust me hun. I had a 9 pound child. I was skinny before i had him cute athletic body. I havent lost all the weight and i have stretch marks now. eww. I hate it. But my fiance love me and understands im not comfortable with me and he makes it okay. We are trying for a second child. he kisses my stumoch telling me he hears a baby. he will rip my clothes off because i dont want to take them off and i think its cute. Being nervous happens to everyone at least one time in there life. If you do it again but with another guy you will be nervous again because it is with another guy. work your self up the kissing and touching.. when he starts touching all over you. You know that he wants you. hes not like judgeing you because he is taking the time of kissing you and touching you to work up to doing other stuff instead of diving right into it. so deep breaths.. try some music. or in the dark. I love just messing around in the dark you can be your self much more. you dont have to be scared. everyone has or will mess around with a guy. so be comfortable. i know its hard with these woman on tv and in magizines now a days but i hope i helped good luck.
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