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Time to let go
I appreciate your response. I have wanted to move forward a long time. I thank you for your encouragement to do so!! I guess I'm scared of being alone maybe. I love having someone in life life to share with. I alternate between self-pity and feeling sorry for him. Mainly, he just doesn't get it. He remains uncomfortable bringing his phone around me and if he does it is on vibrate or muted. I can't fix this and he can't either. He begs me not to bring up the A anymore but, I can't help it and I don't see me over it in the near future. I feel like a failure and yes, very dumb too. It's not so much about the sex anymore, It's ALL the lies. I feel like I'm holding a porcipine and getting stuck with a new quill every day almost. I can't trust that. I think I've learned this from you, when it reaches a point that you are hurt to stay and hurt to get then might as well try to get out cause that hurt eventually passes once filled with other interests. Thank you again!
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You are very welcome and don't be ashamed to embrace what you are feeling. Most people are afraid of being alone and just won't admit it, so you are not alone. This situation just tugs at your heart so much and each betrayal for me hurt more than the last. If you are afraid of how huge the next lie could be, you will be a thousand times better off without him. I have had women tell me about sleepless nights, weight loss, and hair loss etc. The stress can really get to your health. You will happy again, time will heal you. :)
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