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just friends
ok so i have this guy friend that has been on my aim for quite a while then one day he decided to im me to ask me who i was. well i kept on telling him to delete me because he didnt know me, ever since that we would start talking to eachother getting to know each other better finding out we had a lot in common. i dont even remember how i got his screen name in the beginning but i have had it for like 4 years now. anyways i saw his profile and thought he was cute. i really started becoming interested in him..hoping that someday i would see him. well it got to a point where he was asking me for advice on women and how hes tired of being single.... i was trying to tell him \"hello? what about the girl your talkin to right now?\" we left the convo on bad terms because he asked me if i had any friends i could hook him up with. i was gettin kinda pissed i really liked him. then we ended the convo on a bad note. that weekend we saw each other out with our friends at a club, ended up dancing with each other most of the night and kissed. i know that both of us have a great connection and have many things in common. we decided to see each other sometime again which was nice. after that time we still talked but i tried bringing up the whole \"im interested in you\" thing and he said that we will only be friends. well that hurt. here is a guy that you have alot in common with and hes telling me he just wants to be friends. i to this day dont get it. i mean we had a great time out. nothing went wrong. he talked to me recently and said that he wishes we could go to a club sometime as friends and get some numbers. ouch. of coarse i was like sure because that means i can see him again. friends is better than nothing. i still dont get it though. why do men do that? nothing is worse than goin out as friends with a guy that you like then them trying to get numbers from other girls when im the one that likes him and has soo much in common with him. shesh. i feel like i should be in that \"just friends\" movie.
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Ahh! I can totally relate. I think maybe they were just looking for a hookup at the time and you were there and your not really his type for long term girlfriend material?
( if that makes sense )
Or maybe he just sees you just as a friend.
And the last possibility which is probably the most likely is that guys always like a challenge. Something to chase after or to keep things interesting. In your case he knows if he wants you he has you there because you always say yes to hanging-out and you have said you liked him. Guys think thats boring. Maybe say no to hanging out once, or bring another guy to hangout with yall ( maybe make him jealous? ) You gotta play a little hard to get.
Hope i helped!
-amnes
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Some guys just like talking to girls and just treating them like girlfriends but then they dont actually want them to be their gf's basically hes the type of guy you dont want to be in a relationship with because he will end up hurting you more than he is now so its not worth it and even if you like him now u will realize that he's not the rite one for you so just move on and if you can still be friends with him but make it clear that you dont want to be kissed or anything by him cause that will make u want him more.
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