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2 guys and best friend =/
Hey. im 14/f and im freshhh. so theres this guy whos 15 and he likes me and i love talking to him, but like i dont have a physical attrction to him, and i dont think i ever will....and then theres this other guy who i think is really hot and his personality is great and sweet and hes nice and funny, and i like him. so i didnt know that guy 1 liked me, and as a joke im alwasy like YES ILY and OMG LETS GO MAKEOUT but never actually did so people who knew he liekd me thought i was leading him on, but i wasnt. i would never have done that if i knew he liked me. and then guy 2 i really like him but i know he doesnt like me. and also one of my best friends likes him too, but i just found that out. and also i dont want to sound mean but i know he doesnt like her like that at all and he kinda likes me. what do i doo? bc i really want to be with guy 2 but i dont wanna hurt my best friend or guy 1!
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aw look , if your best friend really was your best friend then he/she would understand and also its not really up to to guy1. but id try guy 2 n if it does not work out then just don't tell guy1 x
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I've been there before and am currently going through that right now. If you're not physically attracted to guy number 1 then just let it be. and your friends shouldn't be saying that when you're only joking around, but lets face it, sometimes guys are gullible and not smart enough to know that a girl doesnt like them, so the slightest bit of playful teasing will get their hpes up. If i were you, I'd gradually stop the playful friendly teasing for a while, so he gets the point and focus more on guy number 2. But don't stop talking to guy number 1 if you guys are friends, because I'm sure he would be very confused as to why you stopped talking to him.
also: if you're brave enough, you should bring up the "who do you like" conversation with your guy friend number 1 and if he says you, or doesnt say you, tell him who you like or think you like, OR tell him that you guys are just friends in the nicest way possible. like ... "im so glad we're friends." or "dont you love our friendship."
hope i helped and good luck!
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