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me and him.
15/f
Alright, well i talk to my friend on the ineternet chatting and things like that. I heard that he likes me and really i just think of him as a friend. When we are chatting on IM he tells me i'm beautiful and he likes me and asks if i would ever go out with him. I only think of him as a friend and i don't want to lead him on but i don't want to be mean. Whenevr he tells me i'm pretty or beautiful again, what should i say to that that dosen't lead him on. I still want to be friends with him. When he says that i'm not gonna say "I only like you as a friend, " or "i only think of us as friends." He isn't really implying that just by saying that im pretty. Half the time he says he likes me, i don't know if he is joking or not. What should i do? Thanks!
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be clear and tell them what you do or do not what. bc if you dont and you "lead" them on then they will def hate you. it worse for them to hate you bc of that then just be upset for a while cause you dont like them like that.
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When he asks you if you'd consider going out with him, be very clear. If you haven't been clear yet, do it now. Tell him 'No. Sorry. That won't ever happen because I only see you as a friend.'
If you have been that clear, then just accept his compliments graciously with a 'Thanks.' If one of his compliments goes to far say 'Thanks, but that makes me uncomfortable, please don't say that.'
When he *jokes* about liking you say 'I think you are just trying to be funny, but please stop joking about that. I don't like it."
Just be firm but friendly, and you'll be fine.
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