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L0VE TRiANGLE?
Ok.. this is complicated and long.. so don't even start to read if you aint gonna finish... :)
I met this guy in February of 08 lets call him E he is a kind of a quiet person but i liked him a lot hes really cute and he liked me to. We would spend hours talking on the phone at night constantly text.. Well we started dating in the following March.. many people like his exs warned me that he was a player.. i didnt listen i thought they were just bein haters.. ever since i went down a path of drama with other girls, break ups and more problems. He would always see one of his ex girl behind my back but she aint a problem she moved but.. needless to say he talks to a lot of girls and he still texts that ex girl.. Ok.. well we broke up lots and got back together. No matter how shitty i was treat i went back to him. Well we stopped dating for a while and I started talking to his friend " d" who isn't usually what i would go for at all cause he is a bigger guy. Anyway "d" is really funny, i love being with him.. i dont even think about E when i'm with him like hes amazing. Well E didnt want to get back together until he seen me talking to D... he still claims that its not why but whatever...I really do love E we have had a lot of time together and i love being around him.. but i like D too.. D isn't so innocent himself he had a few girl friends at one time but he claims he would drop them all for me.. I aint his average chick... My problem is now i dont know who i want to be with E who i love but has treated me bogus in the past but seems to have changed some what or D who is funny amazing and claims he aint playin games that he drop all his ladies for me. Who do i go for? A shot at love round 483983492 so me an E get back together well we have been back together for a week problem 001.. this girl he been kickin it with read texts i sent to him and sends me shit talking shit.. okkk now E is a dude who has an excuse for everything... I told him that I didnt want him to hang out with her anymore cause all she gonna do is cause drama.. I gets mad and says im stupid for trynna tell him who to kick it with.. Do i like not have a right to want him to hang out with her cause she starting drama trynna break us up...? So he gave up and told me he wasnt going to talk to her no more.. well she text me telling me he still talks to her. I really like D but its hard to know if he is forreal about only trynna make me his lady.. I really love E we have history and I love being around him. I lay out the pros and cons of each..
E- PROS- He cute.. We have stuff in common.. Hes built (i find that sexy )... i love him.. we can talk for hours.. CONS- girls always trynna call me startin shit.. he talks to a lot of girls.. hes kinda stubborn.. he used to blow me off all the time..
D- PROS-He cute.. we have stuff in commmon.. he is funny as hell.. cool to hang out with.. got money.. he tells me im beautiful.. CONS- has a history of bein a man hoe i guess u could say..he still has his exs shit.. he kind of a bigger guy.. he E's friend..
im so confused.. i dont want to go for D and find out he is still talking to his exs and lose my chance with e cause i still love e and have a big weakness for him.
i dont want to go for E and waste time.. find out hes just going to be bitch again when it could have been time spent with D.
HELP...
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My opinion is drop E, you might love him but he isn't worth your time or the drama. Maybe you should tell D that you went through a lot of stuff with E and you want to make sure that this is for real and your just looking for someone who can care for you and not treat you like crap or cheat on you because if thats what it's about it isnt worth your time. give D a chance if he screws up his chance drop them both and find a new group of guys. some one you can treat you the way you deserve to be treated. good luck!
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E is mad cuz you was with d and no matter how many girls he was with or whatever were any of them your friends? I
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I've got some questions which you should ask yourself which should help:
With whom do I feel safe with?
With whom do I trust to be there for me should I need it?
With whom do I think about more?
With whom do I think is more trustworthy? As in, whom do you think will tell you the truth and not hide things behind your back.
With whom do I think will treat me the way I'm supposed to be treated: with respect?
With whom do I think a relationship will last?
As from my point of view, from what I've read, E isn't the guy for you. You've had endless attempts to get a relationship going, yet it hasn't worked. I hate saying this but I think E is a lost cause now. Even you've said it.
On a personal side, I think you need to think as to what you want in a man. All you've said about the two guys is very sweet and everything, but none of the reasons which you've listed about them is a good reason to love them. 'Got money' is possibly the worst reason to love somebody because eventually, the money will run out and then what have you got? Compliments, jokes and having stuff in common isn't going to last either. You need to find a real reason to love either of them. Do you love them as a person, excluding what they've got? That way, you can have a clearer idea as to whom you want to be with.
I know, you're probably going to give me a low rating or something of that nature after that, but seriously, think about it: what do you want in a man?
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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