hi alex,I really dont get guys, especially this one guy that i have been talking to for a while now.He is a sweet and nice guy, and he always makes me smile. recently he told me that he likes me,and i have been doing a lot of thinking about him, i just cant get him out of my mind. i want to be more than friends with him,but i dont think he feels the same way even tho he telles me he cares about me and that he likes me. Im so confused, i really dont whant to get hurt again, but then again i want to take this risk.. wat should i dooo???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AlexLobrano answered Sunday December 7 2008, 8:50 pm: Guys are different than girls. Girls generally are better with expressing themselves, unlike guys. Guys usually have trouble showing the real side of themselves and can sometimes come off wrong. If he told you he likes you, then I would say you should believe him. In relationships, there has to be a sense of trust on both sides. Even if he doesn't act like he cares about you, I'm sure he does. Guys sometimes put up a sort of shield to prevent themselves from being hurt. If he says he likes you, he's at least putting down his barrier a little, so he trusts you. You have to return the favor. I would say believe in what he's saying, and hopefully it will work. Good luck. [ AlexLobrano's advice column | Ask AlexLobrano A Question ]
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