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Am i a lesbian?
15/female
well i've always been surrounded by gay people, my moms gay all her friends are gay and most of my friends are gay. I have this boyfriend but i'm not very attracted to him, hes great sweet romantic the whole package but i dunno he can drive me crazy but its by touch not really by him. At school i used to check out girls with my friends, lesbians and straight guys, as a joke, except now i'm really noticing them. I really wanna grab some around the waist and sometimes i do but not for long so it won't seem gay. I love the curve from the back to the ass and the boobs and the legs the face and the way whenever they kiss someone their hair hides their faces.... i never saw myself as gay and i'm totally open minded about it but being gay would make my life so complicated, especially since my boyfriend is someone i really care about, what should i do?
please help me
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you could very well be. but you could never really be sure. you might just be bi-curious. a lot of people have this problem, especially in your case, where there's people around you that are comfortable to express their sexuality. whether you think it or not, the subconscious is telling you that women are attractive because of your home, and school environment. whats funny is, I've recently had this problem. and i found out that I'm bisexual. to me there's no problem being gay, straight or bi. the way i look at it is, there's too sexes; female, and male. why not love em both? of course I'll leave you to your decision because nobody can make it for you. but you have to realize, if your feeling is only through sexual attractiveness, that could lead to problems.
About your boyfriend. before you break off any relations between you too (if you decide to) realize that he may have very strong feelings about you. and you cant be selfish, you need to be upfront and honest with him. hiding things can only lead to worse, and worse, and worse problems. this is my heart speaking. think about it. and maybe test out your feelings.
any questions let me know. and good luck :]
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