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*22 Year Old Brother That Doesn't Contribute @ Home*


Question Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 12:31 am

I am in my late 20's and still living at home. I wish I could live on my own but currently want to help out my parents so I am living with them. I contribute by paying rent and various bills for my parents. I try my best to help them as much as I can since my father doesn't have a stable job and my mother is the only one maintaining our home.

My question is the following......My brother who is 22 is living with us. He brought in his girlfriend and they both don't pay nothing at home. I've talked to my parents about this but they dont' say nothing. All I have heard from my mom is "Be nice and do things for others and let God work his wonders" I am with that but I think it's very unfair. I haven't moved out to help them out while my brother and his girlfriend are living here for free, unfair..........

What should I do?? Should I talk to my brother and put some rules or should I just shut up and be quiet? It is my parents home and they are okay with letting him be the way he is so am I out of hand by being mad that he eats, sleeps and etc............for FREE?

I am very frustrated with this, need some advice........


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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday December 3 2008, 6:39 pm:
It is your parents home and I am sure they are happy with you helping out and very grateful for it. One day they will get sick of your brother and his girlfriend living there for free not doing anything on there own. Or there may be th ings you dont know maybe they are saving up for their own place etc. stay quiet about it for now. He is your brother and all.

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