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This is from “What is my bff talking about?”
sorry that this is long...
Okay I didn’t really get your answer so I am going to make my question a little more understanding and explain every thing. first of all my ex boyfriend and I dated for a month or two we broke it off in 2005! He lives in a different state and “he” calls me sometimes because we are just friends. He told me that he still has a thing for me but I told him I am not interested because I want to meet new people and he needs to move on. Anyways my best friend knows that I am bi because I told her a year ago about my self coming out slowly to my loved ones…I even told her that I liked her too just to get it off my chest. I know I am just her friend and she doesn’t feel that same way so I left it at that because I value our friendship. I moved two months ago far from my bff now in a different town 2 hours away from her, we keep in touch by text and phone too. So anyways two days ago that odd text from my ex showed up. I commented it with my bff and she agreed that he needs to move on, so then I told her that I will like to date women more than men and then she got me confused by sending me this reply “if you do, then who should I date?” to me it sounded like she wants to date me. At first I joked around with her that she’ll date some space man or whatever, I then ignored it but then it began to bug me, so the next day I ask her to explain her self and she text “have you found some one you want to date there?” I said “no, why?” she text “I’m just wondering because what you said about Anthony, ” I replied “all I said is that he needs to move on and that I want to date a girl some day, if you want to date my ex go ahead“. Then she texted “ummm no thanks” then I ask “okay what are you getting at? You want to date me?” she text ”that’s what I am wondering about” so I said “so let me get this straight you like me more than a friend?” she texted “um no I was just wondering” then I explain her that she did not make no scents at all and that she made it so awkward then she replied “I WAS JUST WONDERING” and that was it…. then today I asked her again and she text “oh it was nothing”
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So that’s why I am confused and that I had to asked those questions because SHE wasn’t explaining her self!?!?!
Really sorry that this is long….
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OoOoOohhh okay now I understand what you are saying. I am sorry about the misinterpetation. I thought you said she asked who should you date. Not who should she. Okay. So that is weird it sounds like she likes you more than, but if she says its nothing it could be that she likes you and is scared to say it, or maybe she really didn't mean anything by it. Maybe she wanted to see if you still like her.
I don't know, Im confused by her response, b/c it sounds like she likes you. But you said you don't think shes gay, maybe shes bi too.
I don't know what exact advice to give you other than, that she really should explain herself, b/c I have no idea what she meant by that. If she changes the subject it may be that she doesn't wanna talk about it, or maybe shes nervous to tell you. My advice, is give it a rest for a few days and if it comes up again, ask her what she meant maybe if you give her a few days she can figure out how she feels and give you a more clear answer to your situation.
I hope I answered your question. I am slightly confused by her response too, thats why I would wait a few days then ask again, and then leave it alone for good after that.
I'm sorry again for misreading the question, I hope I helped to give you a more clear explanation of what is going on. Best of luck to you and your best friend, and let me know if you need anything else. :)
~ Jeannie
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