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he likes me, he likes me not.
18/f.
alright so i like this guy. i met him at this halloween party. we started dancing together and talking and then later a bunch of us went over to our friends house afterwards just to hang out a little more. he shows up and we were talking and he sits down on a chair and pulls me down and sits me on his lap. we start talking a little more and then we move to the couch so we could talk to eachother better without the chaos of everyone else.
so we continue talking and everything is really good and we are just watching tv and cuddling on the couch. after i leave he turns to my one friend and says how he wished he would of gotten my phone number.
the next day as i'm walking to my classes i pass him and i didn't say anything because i was texting on my phone and didn't realize that i passed him. i get a text from him and he was like "so i'm not even worth a smile or a hi or anything.?" and i said "aw i'm sorry i wasn't paying attention." so we were talking a little more
and then from then on i'd say hey to him and smile
when i passed him and he would text me and be like "thats better." and stuff like that. he also said that we should hang out again sometime and i agreed. the next week i texted him and said we should hang out sometime soon and he said yeah that would be cool. the days go by and we still haven't hung out and haven't talked as much.
i texted him the one day and said "hey how are you?" and he didn't say anything back. then it was my one friends birthday and we were throwing him a party at our friends house and the guy i like was going. so when i get there he wasn't there so i texted him and said "so i heard you were supposed to be at the b-day party tonight, so where are you!? haha" and he didn't say anything back. and i didn't want to continue texting him day after day because i didn't want to be annoying.
so all of his friends kept telling me that they were gonna talk to him and ask him what was up and i didn't want them to because it would make things worse. so my best friend who has a class with him said that she would talk to him. and she did. she told him that i didn't want his friends to be bothering him about me and he said that he wouldn't of been bothered. and then she said that he should text me to hang out sometime because i was interested in him and he said that he would.
well its been a few days and i still haven't gotten anything. i passed him in the cafe the other day he said hey and i said hey back but then nothing after that.
then the other day i decided that i would just stop trying and try and make myself stop liking him because im sick of getting my hopes up and watching them crash to the ground. so when he walked by me the other day i didn't say hello to him.. but he waved his papers infront of me and said "heyy" and smiled.. and i just get so confused with what he wants!!
so i'm so confused.. i don't know what to do.
and i don't know what to think. and i just really would like some help!!
oh and for halloween i was dressed as a "skanky inspector" cause it's halloween and you are allowed to dress skanky.. haha
and my friend told me today that the guy i like isn't into "skanky girls" cause she heard him saying that to his one friend
and it makes me wonder if maybe he thinks i'm a slut/skank and thats why nothing is working out anymore...?
sorry its so long!
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im sure your halloween costume has nothing to do with it. everyone knows girls dress slutty on halloween just to have fun and because they can, haha. its hard to tell, but he does seem at least somewhat interested, it's probably just because he doesnt know you too well so he doesnt want to jump into things too quickly. and you know how people are about saying 'oh we should hang out!' - it usually takes FOREVER to actually make plans.. even just with friends lol. dont totally shut him out... you could lay off texting but keep talking to him in the halls until he texts you. that'll keep his attention but not make you come off as obsessive. he could have lost his phone or gotten it taken away or anything like that. if awhile goes by and he still hasnt texted you, you could try one more time and just say "hey how have you been!?" or make a comment about something yall talked about or whatever. if that doesnt work, he may only want a friend. he seems like he has a really friendly personality, so he might not be looking for anything more. good luck girl!
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