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Question Posted Monday November 17 2008, 7:02 pm

I'm in a relationship now with a boy named Greg, we've been dating for about a year now. Before Greg and I got together I was dating a boy named Jason. Jason was my first love, we went out for about 3 years on and off. Jason and I went our separate ways and he got a girlfriend as well. Over the summer, he broke up with her and I was on a break with Greg and Jason and I ended up hanging out. It felt like old times and he told me he had feelings for me again. But of course the inevitable happened and we both ended up getting back into our former relationships again even though we said we weren't. I'm totally fine with it and everything but he ended up going away to the Army after summer.

I was debating on whether I should write him or not. I don't know if he would care.. I mean he might.. but I don't want to bother him, you know?
It wouldn't be a lovey dovey kind of letter.. just friend seeing how he is liking it and everything.
Should I just write it? It couldn't hurt anything.. I just might be disappointed if I don't hear back from him.


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thexrealxdearxabby answered Tuesday November 18 2008, 10:42 pm:
I think it would be a great idea for you to write to him. To here from someone he cares about is always comforting. Just update him about little stuff and ask how he is, also mention that you miss him. If he doesn't answer don't take it personal; he might just not have the opportunity to, or he might not want to get attached to the letters because it could make him miss home. It is your decision though. good luck :]

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