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he likes me he likes me not
18/f.
alright so i like this guy. i met him at this halloween party. we started dancing together and talking and then later a bunch of us went over to our friends house afterwards just to hang out a little more. he shows up and we were talking and he sits down on a chair and pulls me down and sits me on his lap. we start talking a little more and then we move to the couch so we could talk to eachother better without the chaos of everyone else.
so we continue talking and everything is really good and we are just watching tv and cuddling on the couch. after i leave he turns to my one friend and says how he wished he would of gotten my phone number.
the next day as i'm walking to my classes i pass him and i didn't say anything because i was texting on my phone and didn't realize that i passed him. i get a text from him and he was like "so i'm not even worth a smile or a hi or anything.?" and i said "aw i'm sorry i wasn't paying attention." so we were talking a little more
and then from then on i'd say hey to him and smile
when i passed him and he would text me and be like "thats better." and stuff like that. he also said that we should hang out again sometime and i agreed. the next week i texted him and said we should hang out sometime soon and he said yeah that would be cool. the days go by and we still haven't hung out and haven't talked as much.
i texted him the one day and said "hey how are you?" and he didn't say anything back. then it was my one friends birthday and we were throwing him a party at our friends house and the guy i like was going. so when i get there he wasn't there so i texted him and said "so i heard you were supposed to be at the b-day party tonight, so where are you!? haha" and he didn't say anything back.
so all of his friends kept telling me that they were gonna talk to him and ask him what was up and i didn't want them to because it would make things worse. so my best friend who has a class with him said that she would talk to him. and she did. she told him that i didn't want his friends to be bothering him about me and he said that he wouldn't of been bothered. and then she said that he should text me to hang out sometime because i was interested in him and he said that he would.
well its been a few days and i still haven't gotten anything. i passed him in the cafe the other day he said hey and i said hey back but then nothing after that.
so i'm so confused.. i don't know what to do.
and i don't know what to think. and i just really would like some help!!
oh and for halloween i was dressed as a "skanky inspector" cause it's halloween and you are allowed to dress skanky.. haha
and my friend told me today that the guy i like isn't into "skanky girls" cause she heard him saying that to his one friend
and it makes me wonder if maybe he thinks i'm a slut/skank and thats why nothing is working out anymore...?
sorry that it's sooooo long!!
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He seems to have liked you regardless of your costume or you wouldn't have spent so much time together that evening at the party. Also, he wouldn't care whether or not you ignored him in the hallway if he didn't like you. So, perhaps other people are telling him things about you that's causing him not to pursue more conversations with you or a date. Best way to find out for sure what's going on with him is to come right out and ask him what the deal is. Hopefully he'll be honest with you about whatever it is that's keeping him from texting you back or setting up a date. If his answer is lame, leave him alone and get on with you life.
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Hmm...
i would honestly either
stop him in the hallway and talk to him
or call him, cause a lot of people
will get a text when thier busy with something and forget to write back...
so if you think its worht going for, then i say mount up and talk to him yourself...
good luck!!!
:) *Bri*
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