Question Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 4:54 pm
so i have some questions.
any help is appreciated. thanks.
1. what do guys look for in girls?
2. why do guys not tell girls when they have feelings for them?
3. how do guys flirt with girls?
4. what are some good ways to get a guy to notice you?
5. what are some turn ons for guys?
1. Someone with enthusiasm and a good sense of humour. A gleam in her eye and a great smile can go a long way if you know what I mean.
2. Why don't girls? Lol it probably always looks worse from where one is standing, but I have always found women to be the ones that are most reluctant to put themselves on the line. As a guy it always seems as though it is my God given duty to risk embarrassing myself :D
3. That depends on the guy (some guys don't really flirt as such). It can vary from smiling and trying to pass her compliments to acting like a baboon.
4. No great formula there. Talk to him, be nice, smile, show interest in what he likes, use humour, pay attention to what he says, etc.
5. This one I cannot answer generally (and I will stay away from the physical side of things). Some guys like shy girls, others like tomboys, some like girls who play sports, others like them old fashioned... you will always find some guy that is turned on by any "type" of girl.
From my perspective I like a girl who has energy and passion. Someone also who is not so concerned about what other people think (appearances and such), and who is generally open and not afraid to take initiative. That kind of thing, which is really quite rare, you can even see in the way she acts (like her body language and even the way she walks).
triquetra answered Sunday November 16 2008, 5:35 pm: I don't go for looks or anything of that nature. I'm the kind of guy who wants to fall in love with a girl not because of her looks, but because of her personality.
For me, love isn't about how great the girls curves are or whatever, what matters most to me is that I fall in love with the person beneath all of that because in the end, when you get past all of what you see, you could be in for a shock and find that it isn't the person whom you fell in love with.
Different guys flirt in different ways, don't ask me how because really, as you might've guessed, I don't go for the flirting. Flirting to me is an act of desperation for somebody to make them notice you. Now that's only my view on that subject.
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