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B/f cant come on vacation with my family
I invited my boyfriend(20years old) to come with me and my family on vacation to my grandparents house in the U.S for thanksgiving shopping. Now hes saying that he wont be able to come because he doesn't have enough money and if he leaves for 4 days his job will fire him before Christmas. Am i wrong to be upset about this? cause i really wanted him to come
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It's not wrong to be disappointed, but it is wrong to be upset with him. See the difference? You don't want your boyfriend to lose his job before Christmas, do you? That'd be a lot of stress on him.
Keep your feelings about this private and let him know that while you'll miss him, you understand he has to keep his job and you respect that.
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i dont think your wrong to be upset about the whole situation but you have to remember your boyfriend has the responsibility to his job. Trust me ive been a waitress and i wouldnt be able to make it to family events on holidays because it was mandatory that i work them, i felt horrible but at the same time its hard now a days to find jobs with a flexible schedule. So just keep that in mind, im sure he feels just as upset as you do that he wont be able to spend the holiday with you. Make sure you let him know that you understand, just tell him you are upset that he will be unable to make it but, you understand that him keeping his job is important to him.
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