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wtf a week?
alright, so i've been dating this guy for about a week, and everything was really great we were hanging out the first couple of days, holding hands, being cute, you know exactly how sappy every new couple is, haha.
but then the other day he just wasn't very talkative. i didn't mind it much because i figured he might've just not been in the mood for conversation. then the next day we were going to hang out, but something on my end got screwy so it didnt happen, but he went out anyways and just texted me every now and then the rest of the night.
but then today i asked to hang out and he said he was busy with something, which i understood and made small talk so i wasn't bothering him too much while he was doing whatever he was doing. so i stopped talking to him for a couple hours cause i was watching movies, and sent a text to him just seeing how things with what he was doing were going and he didn't answer, so i just assumed he fell asleep. well then it was 3 in the morning and i was online with my friend and he was on, sat there for a couple minutes, and then signed off. i thought it was weird that he didn't IM me or anything.
so its been like three days and just not much conversation has been going on and i just feel like if i don't hang out with him soon he's going to distance himself more or something.
i think i might just be being paranoid. i just need someone's views on it. i'm just getting some feelings of distancing, but that just might be because every time i tend to date/almost date a guy within a week something happens and then they just like, break it off with me. i think i might just like this guy alot and i'm worried, so i just need voices of opinions here, please.
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There could be many reasons for this. He could be going through something big at the moment or he could be distancing himself. So I think you should try to talk to him and see whats going on. But wait a little bit before talking. But if this doesn't change soon then you really need to talk to this guy and see whats up. But I hope everything goes well!
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He could possibly be going through some kind of emotional or family crisis at the moment and he is just feeling kind of bummed about it. Or it could be that he is distancing himself from you. The only way to find out is to wait it out a few more days. If by say Friday things don't start changing, then you should call him and ask him if anything is wrong. Tell him how you feel about him not talking to you. Anyways, I hope everything works out. <3
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