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i told this girl how i felt and she said it was the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to her but didnt feel the same way and ever since then she's been talking to me nonstop what does this mean?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Do you like her?
Stop talking to her. Tell her that you still like her (Obviously) but that it hurts that she doesnt feel the same way and you need to not talk to her for a few days or a week. Tell her you need time to get yourself together.
Wait four days, and give her a call telling her you missed her. Tell her that you like her, and you don't want to give that up, so you're just going to keep asking her out until she says yes.
The point of this is, to make her miss you, then tell her you missed her. Then state your intention that your relationship is NOT just friends.
From that point on, ask her out every other day. Do it at a different time every day, and otherwise act completely normal around her.
Do the following as well.
-Compliment something about her at least every other day. You don't want to compliment her every conversation, just often enough to tell her you notice things. Compliment her appearance (Nice hair, nice shoes, pretty earrings) Compliment her eyes.
- Eye contact - Looking someone in the eyes shows confidence, interest, and attention. When you talk to her, look at her face. If her eyes meet yours, smile a tiny bit, and don't look away for a few seconds. Don't stare at her, but train yourself to keep looking if your eyes meet hers and not to look away. When you do look away, look up or to the side at something, not down. Looking down indicates nervousness.
- Smile - Its simple, but smile at her. Don't grin, but when you're talking to her about things smile when she says something funny, or when shes cute. Smiling also shows confidence and interest, and enjoyment.
Alright, so now we get to what women want.
What do girls your age want?
-They want to be wanted or needed
-They want you to make each other smile
-They want to feel excited around you
Usually ending up in the "friend trap" situation means you lack the excitement aspect. Get a hobby. Go learn to be great at pool, or something ridiculous. My random party trick is fire blowing. No, I am not telling you to go blow fire. Please don't, actually, because I think I could be held somewhat liable if you incinerate yourself.
Point being, if I walk into a party and blow a 15 foot flame burst out my mouth, girls like it. Develop something somewhat unique to yourself that makes you cool. Something you can get good at and show off.
I can't guarantee you this girl will come around, but if she could you've got a good plan for being persistent. In the future, the biggest thing you need to remember is that its actually a very BAD idea to become close friends with a girl before expressing interest. Even if you get shot down, persistence can pay off. So hang out with her and talk to her, and ask her out every other day and tell her its because shes fun, cute, and generally amazing.
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It means that she thinks you are a sweet guy and she wants to be your friend. Sometimes when someone finds out that someone else likes them, they get so flattered by it and it actually makes them want to be around that person more. However, if she said she doesn't feel the same, then she doesn't feel the same. I know where you stand because I've had to stand there before in my life and all I can say is that you should move on as quickly as possible. It'll only make things worse if you hold on to the possibility that maybe someday she'll feel the same. I'm sorry if this came off as harsh, but I really only want what's best for you. Take care. <3
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