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getting to know a guy or not
15/f Theres this guy who i know is interested in me because he told one of our mutual guy friends that he wanted to know me and thought i was hott and stuff. I heard from the beginning he was a douche and kind of an asshole, but I was like whatever hes hott. Now that i talk to him more I see he can be an asshole but i think he would be nice to his girlfriend. I also have heard he likes to just have sex with girls. He seems like he could be a genuine guy to the one he wants because he said he is looking for a girlfriend, but im not cool with f-ing to find a girlfriend. Basicaly I just dont know if I should act like im interested and flirt or just dont do anything ?
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It seems like you like him, but you are kind of concerned about what kind of guy he really is. Get to know him. Never go by what anyone else says, go see who he is for yourself. Once you do know him well then you'll know if you really like him. If you do find out he wants to have sex, then tell him you won't. He might not be too happy about that, but maybe just maybe, he'll forget about the sex and like you for you. If not, the ditch him, you are better than that. :)
Hope things go well.
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If you are interested, be interested.
If you don't believe in fucking to find a girlfriend, don't have casual sex with him.
If you feel that way it shouldn't be too hard to say 'Dude, I like you, but I'm not hopping into bed with you.'
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