16/f. this is long.. lol
I met this boy last may and we like hit it off right away. i was 14 at the time, and of course being young and dumb we started going out 2 days later. it lasted a week because he had other girls. he was a bit of a player. well then like a few weeks later we tried it again, and it lasted like 3 months..it was really good. we had to break up because he was stupid, got into fights and his mom grounded him and shit for like a month. but then we got back together, it was like perfect. thne he told me he cheated on me..and i thought i was in love with him so i didnt care. he told me he still loved me and stuff. anyways, we broke up like a few days later because i realized i needed better than that. i started dating this boy, and he was a sweetheart. it was for a month, i broke up with him because i still liked my ex. that was the dumbest thing i have ever done. well me and my ex never got back together. then we would still "talk" like be together or whatever. then he would just be like i dont want you bye. and then like in february he got a girlfriend, they were crazy in love according to both of them and were planning on getting married. its weird lol they were 16. anways they broke up after 7 months. then my best friend and his best friendf started datingf then my friends bf told her that my ex wanted me back..i was like oh lord. so he would text me and asked if i wanted to talk talk to him.. i was like yeah sure. but the thing is that before whenever me and him would talk i would completely flal in love all over again, but now its like i feel ABSOLUTELY nothing while talking to him. he changed alot though, he became like a pothead..he claims he isnt but i can tell he is. and hes not the same guy i fell for when i met him. he says he wantd a relationship with me and stuff. i dont feel nothing at all when i talk to him. NOTHING. its weird. i was completely in love with this kid before. or so i thought. help!!!
You are one of the few girls who finally saw through someones Bull. You have simply outgrown this guy. It's not a problem. Consider yourself lucky.
Pat yourself on the back, laugh it off and keep it moving. Hope that this helps ( although you did not need me to tell you anything) Good luck!!!!!! [ Mystique23's advice column | Ask Mystique23 A Question ]
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