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torn between two lovers
Just to make it simple...
I(18) met this girl(18) from school and she recently broke with her boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months now and we are so happy with each other. She love me so dearly and told me that I really mean everything to her.
How come, when she went home for the holidays, everything changed she told me that she doesn't have feelings for me and she wants to end our relationship.She told me that she's back with her boyfriend the one that she broke up a couple of months ago...
just want to ask is it possible for a girl to loose her feelings over a guy or is it she still have feelings for her other boyfriend.
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Honestly I know this may not be what you want to hear, but people do change, and maybe she did love you and she loved him too. Its not that her feeling werent valid, maybe she just felt like a different person when she was with him then she was with you. I don't know if that made sense.
Anyways, I wouldn't blame yourself, she wasn't right for you and you will find someone who is right for you, when the right moment comes along. Just trust it and relax and enjoy the ride.
Best of luck to you :)
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It seems to me that although this girl had slight feelings for you, you were more along the lines of someone she could lean on while she trying to get over her previous heartbreak. If she really loved you as much as it seemed that she did, her feelings would not have been lost over that small period of time. If she decides to come back to you again after another break-up with her current boyfreind, be very careful if you choose to take her back. Don't let people use you that way.
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She probably truely did care and love for you but she had gone home and wasn't around you and her feelings for her ex may have not gone away and he probably convinced her to go back out with him. good luck. i am sorry you are going through something like this.
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It sounds like she likes both of you but then has other feelings for her ex boyfriend.
Hope I helped !xo
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