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What am I really feeling for these girls?
I've been having dreams of girls lately. Like some are I suddenly wake to be in a relationship with a random girl. (But then I suddenly ask what happened to my boyfriend...)
And others are I don't even see the person, but I have some kind of feelings for them and am searching for them.
Two dreams I'm going to mention are of an old friend and a boyfriend's friend. I'm honestly not sure what the feeling is I have for them.
I mean, yes, when I first met my old friend... I thought she was pretty and such. But I moved my feelings to someone else as at the time she was not interested in girls.
I'm not quite sure what love really is. But I think I love her... but as a friend.
I've been having a couple of dreams of her lately. I'm always looking for her and I feel love towards her. I think I might miss her. I haven't spoken to her in over a year. I was in a bad relationship at the time and I wasn't allowed to see her. I feel guilty ignoring her.
And this other girl, my boyfriend's friend, I met once and didn't really talk to her.
She's barely older than me and has a child. I think I may just care a lot for her. In my dream, I was taking care of her. I think I just might feel bad for her because of her relationship problems. I was in abusive one so I really want her to be happy.
What do you think? I do love my boyfriend a lot. So I'm confused as to why I keep getting these dreams/thoughts/feelings...
Is it just that I want to make people happy?
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I think you might miss your friend too. I doubt this is anything sexual.
I had similar dreams about a friend I had stopped talking to. I was looking for her and missed her and wanted to see her. I took it to mean I had let go of our differences and I should let her know that.
Long story short, we're best friends again.
I think you should call your friend and let her know you miss her.
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Hi,
I think you are really confused about your feelings right now and that's why you are having all the dreams. You might be confusing live with compassion or sympathy. I could be a lot of reasons.
You sound kind of young. You could also be bi-curious. I don't think it's too much to worry about right now. Try to be a little more secure with yourself. You are not doing anything wrong and there is nothing wrong with you for feeling the way you do. Don't be so hard on yourself. I really hope I helped you.
Good luck
Ediemarie
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