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i messed up.
i am the same girl who asked about cheating and how to earn his trust back. he knows everything and how i feel about it all. today he told me that he wants to concentrate more on school because he bombed his test even though he knew every problem but his head isnt in the right place. he doesnt want us to talk till he starts to think straight and that he would call me when he is doing better. it may be in a week, a month or a year. so do i just give him space till he decides to call no matter how long it may take? and if so, then doesnt that mean that it will be too late to show him that he can trust me again. and he keeps bringing up the fact that i cheated and didnt tell him. i told him i messed up but how long will he keep bringing it up and he said until he gets better.
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Well, I am afraid you may have to give him some space. The truth is you messed up, but you also acknowledge that you made a mistake. Now he says that he needs space and you have to respect that.
However, it is not fair to you for him to keep you waiting for weeks, or months ( despite what you did you don't deserve to be at his disposal). If he can't get past the mistake then I am afriad that you may have to move on. Don't jump into another relationship right away, give yourself a grace period (sort out your feelings).
Sorry that there are no easy answers. You can take this as a learning experience. Maybe as soon as you stop worrying about it he might want to give it another shot. If not, I beleve that you are smart and I am sure that the right guy will be able to see it. Good luck!!! I hope that this helps!!!!!!
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