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was engaged...
hey.so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 days lol
but anyways we like each other a lot, and tell each other everything, so everything is fine...
but he was in a 3 year relationship before me, and asked her to marry him, and she said yes....but she cheated on him. They've been broken up for a while, but what are somethings i should, or should'nt do to like make him think about it?
And he also works with her mom, and i guess they have a pretty good relationship...
or what should i do to keep us going good, and keep him interested in me i guess???
me 18, him 20.
Thanxxx!!
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Honestly he has been in relationships before you, and you have to accept that. But the best thing to do, is just put energy into your new relationship with him, and be yourself. Just be who you are, b/c if he loves you for you are, then it is worth it. But you cannot force someone to move on, they have to take the iniative. Just have fun and get to know him, b/c in time everything will be fine, and you will be together, and he will have moved on.
Just let him make the first move and let it fall into place.
Have fun too and good luck with everything :)
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I've also had a person come and ask me for advice personally on this situation and they rated my advice a 5. So you should like this:
Simply be yourself, you being their for him and your presence is all that is needed. You should not attempt to do anything to lure his mind away from his past relationship, because the more you try to, the more he's going to think about it because your making the decision for him to move on, not himself. When he's ready to move on, he'll move on and he'll forget about his past relationship because he made the decision to move on and not you. So give him about a month or two, and I GUARANTEE to you that he will have moved on by than. Just be yourself and be the best that you can be while you two are together
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Be your self if he doesn't love you for you than it isnt worth the time. 3 days is a very short time. people change once you get to know him take it slow and always be there for each other. good l uck/
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