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why do i keep losing the guy i like?
last year i loved this guy and my best friend
went out with him because i told her it was
okay to. i told her it was okay because i was texting
him one night and he's like, do you know if
she likes me? and so i found out he didn't
like me. so i was in denial about liking
him and i told her it was okay.
then this year i started liking this guy
and i don't love him or anything but i really
do like him and then my best friend's friend
started dating him tonight because i was
again, in denial. why do i keep losing them?
(btw, i read your description thing and i'm 14 and i love the beatles too! lol)
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Hi :) lol
Well, first of all, if your best friend keeps stealing you men away, tell her it's not ok! She's asking you for permission, and you're giving it too her even though you really do like him. Don't freak out on her or anything of course lol just say "Well, actually I kinda really like him". Also, this might be a problem with her being more social. If she's getting to these guys before you are, maybe it's something about her personality that these guys like. When you talk to a guy you like, be a little more outgoing and flirty. Not like over-the-top, but just things like looking into his eyes and smiling at him and giving him a play full shove or something.
So, the moral here; If you like the guy, tell her when she asks for permission. If she decides to go out with him anyway, it's ok to be a little upset with her because that's just not what a best friend does :)
Goodluck dude! Hope I helped!
-Jessica f/14
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