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so confused, always getting let down..
im an 18 year old female. i have a best friend, whose a guy. we've been best friends for years now until he got a girlfriend. now i only talk to him maybe once a month texting, barely get to see him and it really does upset me ALOT. last weekend he texted me and we talked for two days straight about so much stuff and last saturday he texted me at like 11:00 and wanted me to come over because his parents were gone but i couldn't. well i guess you could he wants to mess around. don't judge me. anyways he was like lets do something next weekend (meaning this weekend) and i was like okay well you can see me but not DO something with me (meaning sexually) and he was like ok how bout both. and i told him i was going to have my period haha. and he was like ohhhhhh okay yeah haha. so i thought we were going to still hang out this weekend and he didn't text me all week, so i thought he would at least text me yesterday or today and NOTHING. i found out he is in a different state playing hockey for this team he is on this weekend. i don't know if he forgot about it or what? but now im really sad because i had my hopes up of seeing him this weekend and it was the only thing i was looking forward to and now he didn't even talk to me or anything, i dont know if having my period freaked him out or something? i don't know what to do, i don't text people first and everyone including him knows that. i just wish he would of at least texted me or something because now i'm mad... maybe im over-reacting but what do you guys think?
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I'm going to give you REAL advice, okay, now you say that he didn't text you back or didn't communicate with you at all right. Trust me, the whole having your period thing didn't freak him out, because if he's ready to get sexual with you than trust me, he knows the female anatomy by now. The reason most likely why he hasnt gotten back to you is because he simply understands that you don't want to mess around with him. And thats understandable seeing as how he already has a GF and all. But, with him knowing that your not willing to do anything with him, he doesn't want anything to do with you. And take my advice when I say, you do like him, because obviously you wouldn't care if you two hung out or not. But, your too good for him if he's not going to keep in contact with you on a daily basis to keep updated with your life. This means he doesn't care, he just wants to love you and leave you, and make you another "girl" that he messed around with and tell to his buddies. So when he's ready to talk to you, than you just sit around and don't even worry about it. Make him make the first move, not you.
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it sounds to me as if you like him more than a friend but afrid to admit it? Maybe you should talk to him. Ask what happened this weekend?
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