ok this is really embarrassing... but i masturbate, but only w/ my clit and only like every other week or so... that sounds really awkward... ok but i know its healthy and whatever, but i just want to stop. its nice up until it feels REALLY good, and then like a wave of guilt crashes on me, and it makes me feel really weird. so, how do i stop? please dont tell me to keep doing it because no matter how much i tell myself its good for me, it still makes me feel really really weird. any suggestions?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? ediemarie answered Saturday November 1 2008, 2:16 pm: Hi,
plenty of people of all ages feel the way you do about masturbating. No matter how many times you tell yourself what the psychologists say about it being healthy for you, you are not going to feel right about it until you feel right about your sexuality. You're always going to have the guilt until yo settle that with yourself.
I would suggest taking a break from masturbating for a while and do some soul searching. Find something else to do to occupy your time and get your mind off of it. You are still pretty young. When did you start masturbating and why? Maybe answering that question might help a little. I don't know if I helped, but I hope I helped you to think about some things and let you know that you're alright.
Good luck,
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