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Breaking Point


Question Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 7:37 pm

17/f


I hate where I live. Everyone hates me. My friends are distancing themselves from me so that they aren't harassed too. Everytime my parents see me cry I know I'm hurting them.

I am hated for who I am. The people here are too insecure to accept anyone who is 'above average.' In ten months I am definitely moving out, but I don't know how to deal with this situation for that much longer. I don't deserve this. Help?


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meli987 answered Saturday October 25 2008, 9:07 pm:
Just by reading this hurt me. I hate when people are unhappy with themselves. I completely know how you feel. I suggest that you should see a counselor at your school or even go and pay for a good therapist. I have been at that super low point where you have no idea what to do, you hate yourself, sometimes maybe you just wish you could disappear. I always wanted to see someone, but I thought people would think I was crazy. Don't think it's a bad thing. You need someone to talk to. You clearly need to get your feelings out somehow. When your angry go for a run or a walk, listen to music. When your sad watch one of your favorite movies that makes you happy. When you feel so helpless like you really need to talk to someone keep a journal and write about how you feel or write poetry. Any of those should help, but like I said you should ask your parents if you can go see someone or go talk to your school counselor. You can't change who people are and your friends really suck if they are leaving you when you're feeling so low. So f*ck them. I really hope I helped.

<3 Good Luck

~ Meli

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