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So.. no longer wanting what you've ALWAYS wanted
Ever since I was a little girl, the only thing I've wanted was to be in love. Like the notebook love, mixed with twilight love. Its retarded I know, and I realize how unrealistic and "rare" love like that even is. But the hope of finding someone was the only thing that really kept me going, and now instead of being afraid that I won't find anyone. I dont even care anymore, I dont care if I end up alone, because it just doesn't matter anymore.
I used to say I didnt care, but secretly hoping, wondering, wishing I would find someone.
But now, I'm indifferent and I think I'm okay with it. I dont even want to be in love ever, I dont want anyone.
Is this okay? It just seems weird that something I've wanted forever, I no longer have any interest in. It just doesnt seem normal, who doesnt want love?
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If you no longer care or not care if you fall in love you must be very comfortable about who you are as a person, and there's nothing wrong with that. Use this time to do things with your life that really matter to you.
Because when you do eventually fall in love, you'll have lots accomplished when it happens.
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I felt that way too. I wanted love that could conquer all. Then, I got heartbroken. I gave up... I didn't even care anymore. I started thinking.. what's the point on finding love, if it only leads to heartbreak, and pain. But then I met someone. He made me believe in love again, He's my dream come true. I love him with all of my heart. Please don't give up on love. Not completely at least, I found out, when you are looking for love, and focus only on finding love, it becomes harder and harder to find. But when you focus on other things, then love will find you. Don't give up on love, just maybe focus on something else for a little while.
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