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Friends, Boyfriend, RELATIONSHIPS!
Hi I have a series of questions. First off when I first met my boyfriend I had alot of friends, I was super outgoing, fun and went out with my friends. When I met my boyfriend it was hard for me to see him because my parents were really strict at the time, I made a mistake and devoted all my free time to him instead of my friends. Then i went to grade 12 and was hardly at school because of co-op and plus i lived 40 min away from school and all my friends and hardly saw them. One night we all went out (girls night) and got SUPER drunk, I almost got alchohol poisoning and landed in the hospital. My boyfriend was so supportive and my mom started to really dislike my friends and so I saw them even less. I graduated and landed a really cool job at a lengerie store where I met alot of cool people and my ORIGINAL personality started coming out again, but I couldnt go out with them becasue I was underage and couldnt get into bars and such, I left that job and am now at a job where I do not like my co-workers as friends I simply go to work and go home (I hate my job) I am left with NO FRIENDS. I sometimes talk to my old high school friends on face book but We NEVER go out or talk on the phone, they invite me but Im so afraid that they are into stuff that I am not (drugs and stupidity) I don't want to go out with them and have them be the same immature people from highschool, Ive grown up and Im afraid that my old friends have not and so I Will feel out of place. My boyfriend now of 3 years is WONDERFUL i spend alot of time with him but I feel so lonely because he has a few good friends he has known since he was a boy and I feel like a loser because he will go out with them and I will be stuck at home BY MYSELF because my boyfriend is the only friend I have. I feel lonely and I WANT TO GO OUT WITH FRIENDS. I want to have a life and go out with other people besides my boyfriend. I don;t know what to do. I find that I get along with people that are like a year or 2 older than me but then we cant do things together cuz I am still underage (becoming of age in december) What should I do, its weird going out with people you havnt seen in years??? How do i make friends that I have build a real friendship with! I am going to be 19 and really need/want a REAL LIFE!!!!
Please help, any opinions will help me feel better.
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i understand how you feel.
sometimes i feel like i have no friends, and that i need to get out more.
but all you need to do is find people on like msn, facebook, myspace and all that, get to know them quite well, make sure they're not druggys or stupid like you said you were scared of, and then when you feel you know them well enough, meet up with them.
not only are you making a new friend, but in the futre they might introduce you to they're friends too.
i hope i helped, and good luck x
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