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I love sex BUT....
I love sex but I over heard my Boyfriend telling his friend about what goes on in our bed.i
m an very open person and people think that something like this shouldn't bother me but it is because. Me and my boyfriend do any and everything in the bed and his friends is kinda flirty.And thats probaly why. MY boyfriend always say his boys wish they had a girl like me and i just take it as a compliment..But now I feel uneasy about it because i think thats why they are always looking at me.We have had 3 somes before but never with any pf his friend...and i really hope he didn't tell them that...
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You know I think I would be really flattered if they were looking at me like that. If you want you could always talk to them about it. You could always ask your bf if that is it. You might just be paranoid about it, but I think you should just stop thinking about it.
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Well you certainly have a right to feel uneasy. No mattwer how open a person, your sex life is very personal and intimate. It should stay between you and your partner. Our reputations are a big part of us growing up, and we like to keep that in tact. If you and your boyfriend are close enough to be having a sex life, you should feel comfortable enough to tell him that you are bothered by the fact that he tells his friends about your private life. Let him know how it makes you feel and that you don't see it as respectful. Chances are he is going to understand and correct the problem immediately. But the only way he will know is if you speak up. :)
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I used to be the same way with my friends. I had no idea the way it affected how my gf felt until she came out and told me. Honesty, communication, without those people end up hurt. So my advice to you is to confront your boyfriend and let him know how you feel, he will understand and start keeping some secrets or even completely stop all together. Hope I could help o^-^o
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