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making something out of nothing (confused)
17/f, I like this guy he is a year younger than I am, but he is so cute. I go to a tiny private school (everyone-knows-everyone) type of deal and I have spoken to him in the past, but that was when we both were at the same school event together (and it was just small talk) and we spoke a little bit after that, but then summer came so this year, we haven't been talking or anything. I realized that I think this guy is so hot, and I want to start talking to him again. But every time I see him, he's with his guy friends, and it's a little intimidating talking to a guy (and probably awkward) when he is with his friends and say hey. I don't have any classes with him, and unfortunatly, my personality sort of blends in, but my looks stand out. The good thing is that I am friends with some of the guys in his grade, but once again it would also be weird if I mentioned to them about the guy I like. How should I approach this guy? I don't want to hear answers like flirt or say nice shirt, because then all the other guys would hear and stuff, or is it better to tell the guy you like oh your looking good today in front of his friends, because then they'll think you have the right confidence? I don't know how to approach him obviously haha so help
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I have gone through the same thing. Maybe when he walks by say hi or wave or at least smile. And if you want to approach him and he is with his friends. Go with some of your friends. You don't have to do this alone. You friends will be there for support and to be there so you don't look very awkward. If you are a pretty open person and is outgoing you can go up to them by yourself and talk too. So goo luck and hope everything goes well!
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Don't be afraid of his friends. I know that's hard to do, but it's the only way that you're going to be able to get in with him. Don't compliment his apparel. Just say hi, and start some small talk with him AND his friends, like it's no big deal. When you're at a point where it's not that weird for you to be around, then flirt with the guy.
You have to get in good with his friends before you can really do anything both because of the situation and because if you're not in good with his friends then they could become a problem. So start getting buddy buddy with the whole group.
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