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problems with a certain guy
so im 16/f.
this guy is 16/m
hes one of my best friends but hes a TOTAL flirt w/ everyone,hes bi too so its with EVERYONE,literally. he knows i like him but he doesnt wanna go out, he says "its bad timing" or "he doesnt wanna ruin our friendship or hurt me" which is somewhat true i guess. but something about him is amazing. he brings out the crazy amazing side of me i never thought anyone could bring out in me. some people dont like his huge ego, but i like almost everything bout him, except his flirtatiousness towards everyone. i've let it pass by trying to just be a good friend,but hes flirty with me too which makes it hard. hes a sexual person, and im not really, i dont want to go out w/ him and him expect sex from me or something, and he knows that, its just, i don't know what to do because theirs that saying when you cant go a day without thinking of someone, maybe that's a sign...i dont know what to do, we've talked about dating so many times it would be way weird if i brought it up AGAIN. any suggestions
p.s- homecoming is this weekend, hes on homecoming court and i thought I'd be his escort, but instead he got a 19 yr old hot guy. I'd like to dance with him but hes SO flirty, he probably wont give me the time of day because hes so different around school people.
(sorry it was so long)
thank you SOOO much!
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Hey.
Honestly, since I know you, this is a lot easier. But even if I didn't, I would say that you have your entire life ahead of you. No one says you have to find your soul mate right here and right now. In fact, if you DO find your soul mate in high school, you're pretty lucky.
There are SO many people out there who would give you the time of day; so many people would not be as two-faced as your friend seems.
My advice is to get over him as quickly as you can, and find someone else. I know that can and will be hard, but you just have to trust that there is someone out there who you will like more, who you may even love, and who will love you and give you the respect you deserve.
Thanks for inboxing. ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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