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i have discovered i have a problem geetting a oragasim
if a girl is having problems reaching her point but feels it is almost there but never comes,what is the problem and how can i make it happen?
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First let me extend me sympathy. That has GOT to be annoying. I know it was for me.
Secondly, there are all sorts of things you can do... oral is great for that sort of thing, and there are different ways you can use it. You can oral till you get there, oral till you're almost there and sex the rest off, or sex till almost there and then oral it off. You can also try touching yourself while he goes at it. Guys like it because it's hot or something... my boy loves it. Toys are good, certain lubes like warming and tingling, relaxing instead of focusing on it is a major help...
Mainly, find out what gets you there and incorporate it.
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There could be many reasons why this is an issue. First one is it could be a subconcious isssue. Mentally something is holding them back. Second it could be medical issue, meaning something phyical that only a doctor could find. Their are many things that contibute to this,it really not that uncommon. Woman who are mentally stressed or just not into it, will sometimes never orgasism. If this is something that continues on though, I would recommend seeing a doctor about it and be checked out. If their is nothing phyically wrong, then its something mentally holding them back. Aslo knwoing your partner and what they like, is a very important key factor. Make sure you know dislikes and likes wen it comes to being intomate. If something is being done that makes a person feel uncomfortable it can have alot to do with this kind of situation. All in all if this is something that remains and issue getting a phyical is important. If the phyical shows nothing wrong, seeking some other professional advice might be nessary to get to the root of the problem. Mainly be honest and upfront about things, dont feel rushed take your time, try to make it a non stressful situation. Realy show her how important she is to you, dont makeit seem like a challage or a mission. And dont let this kind of issue ruin anyones self esteem, it happens. I hope this helped keep me posted and let me know how it going.
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