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how to get over a hell relationship, to show the love of my life true love


Question Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 7:23 pm

im 14 female, my ex hurt me soo bad not physically but i cried so much, we kissed before we wer even dating it was his first n my sober first :x even when id kiss his cheek saying bye or put my arm around him hed push me off but then he got mad that I kissed to softly
so now i have a new bf who is different then everyone and id give my life for him, hes ben threw it all with me, right when we met we fell for each other. ppl says were perfect and we talk about everything n anything, hes saved my life many times, im suicidal till i met him.. wev helped each other threw everything
but the question is i feel bad that wev been going out for a month n a half n we still havent even kissed, im just way to scared to get hurt again, he says its ok n he promises hed never hurt me, n i trust him, i trust him with my life il go as far as he wants but im to scared. were going very slow i just feel bad what can i do? im diein to kiss him n hes diein to kiss me. we get extremely close, like put our foreheads together n say i love u or fall asleep in each others arms, there just all so sweet n he is a real gentlemen n always knows what to say, n always says these cute lil things to me. What can I do back to him to show how much I love him? I think he deserves more than me but he says I deserve more than him. I love him n he knows me better than I do.
I just feel bad, although were going to soulfire in like half hour n he might come over tomarrow then Friday we have our homecomeing game then Saturday is homecoming, n we see eachother daily at school. Is there any other cute ways I could start a kiss? And what can I do to get over how much my ex hurt me so I can show the best guy in the world how much I truly love him?

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VeNzUeLa answered Friday October 3 2008, 4:42 am:
I'm sorry about your last relationship! But, yes, you have to get over it and show this current boyfriend more. You are half way there, by realising that your ex wasn't anything close to right is a big step, and I congratualte you on that. With your current one, start by sending little messages to him, letting him know or reminding him that you do love him and you just need a little more time, but don't say you need a little more time everytime you message him. :) Just remind him that you are there for him too, a simple reminder does alot. Keep the communication strong, it will help you last even longer.
Well, if you want to kiss him, you can either start kissing him cheek, or, if you are too scared to do that, sometimes it is just easier to let him jump on it, as in make the first move and you go with the flow. It may be the best thing in a long time! :) You have to learn to let go, and it is unfair leaving him hanging, and you are lucky to have a guy understand that about you, and so, take your time, get your feelings straight and remeber that, one day or another, you are going to have to let go, might as well be now!

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