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I need closure
How do I get closure to situations that has gone on in my life far to long.
First situation I been friends on and off with this girl name Kathy since 2003.We met online and then in real life.She and I only hang out a few times in a year.She moved to Chicago and I have not seen her in real life in years.She would call me out of the blue we talk and then we become friends and then out of the blue she and I will stop talking to each other.We are friends on and off for years.
I been dating this guy name Josh on and off since 1999.We break up and get back together more times than I can count.I am on medication for my mood swings and I am obsessed with him.I am hooked on Josh.How do I break the addication I have to Josh and Kathy and take my life back?I live in fear that Josh might kill himself.Josh keep telling me he wants to die and he wants to kill himself. I have nightmares that Josh will kill himself or kill me.I had a nightmare last night that Josh kill himself and try to shoot me.What does this mean.
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Well with situaton number 1 i would talk to Kathy next time she call (or if you have her number maybe you can call her)and i would talk to her and ask her why this is heppening.If she turns it back to you try to sort the situation out as if you are bothe the blame instead of making it sound like it is all her fault(otherwise she might get angry and hang up)and see if that works
Now with situation number 2 I would talk to Josh and tell him that he might need to see a doctor about 'trying to kil himself'because it is a worry.I would also try to comfort him when oyu are aroun him because that would make him feel less threatened.If you keep haing the nightmares it might be a good idea to see a docter or councelor about it to help you deal with the stress.
I hope this advice has been helpful and if you would like to ask another question feel free to ask
bye xoxoxox
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