hey my name is samantha but you can call me sam
i give great advice and i have been through many teenage experiences so if you have a qouestion i will most likely be able to answer it.
So if you have a qouestion you can ask me.
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Gender: Female
Member Since: September 30, 2008
Answers: 5
Last Update: September 30, 2008
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I have left Kathy alone online. I have not been on any websites she is on.I am only on myspace. I am trying to understand why I am so hooked on Kathy,Josh and Alison and Roman.How do I break the addication I have to these people and free my mind of them.I am worried that Kathy might call me out of the blue and start pretending she cares about me and wants to be my friend.One day she is my friend the next day we are not friends.I don't get why she is acting like this to me. (link)
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Well i would try and find some different friends and do some fun stuff with them to try and get your old friends out of your head and if kathy calls you and pretends everything is ok i would just do what she does and not talk to her to get back at her or i would tell her what she does and i would tell her that if she does it again then their might not be anymore friendship btween you both.
xoxoxox
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I don't get why Kathy hates me so much.I am trying to talk to her on myspace.com and she called me SWIP?What in the hell does SWIP mean? I have left Kathy alone online for a long time.I am trying to talk to her but she does not want to talk to me.It hurts my feelings I lost Kathy and Alison as my friends. (link)
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Well im not sure what swip means but if she really doesnt want to talk to you then i would just leave her alone for longer then when she comes crawling back i would tell her what she did and maybe even stop being friends with her because she is not treating you right and people who dont treat you right are not good friends
xoxox
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How do I get closure to situations that has gone on in my life far to long.
First situation I been friends on and off with this girl name Kathy since 2003.We met online and then in real life.She and I only hang out a few times in a year.She moved to Chicago and I have not seen her in real life in years.She would call me out of the blue we talk and then we become friends and then out of the blue she and I will stop talking to each other.We are friends on and off for years.
I been dating this guy name Josh on and off since 1999.We break up and get back together more times than I can count.I am on medication for my mood swings and I am obsessed with him.I am hooked on Josh.How do I break the addication I have to Josh and Kathy and take my life back?I live in fear that Josh might kill himself.Josh keep telling me he wants to die and he wants to kill himself. I have nightmares that Josh will kill himself or kill me.I had a nightmare last night that Josh kill himself and try to shoot me.What does this mean. (link)
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Well with situaton number 1 i would talk to Kathy next time she call (or if you have her number maybe you can call her)and i would talk to her and ask her why this is heppening.If she turns it back to you try to sort the situation out as if you are bothe the blame instead of making it sound like it is all her fault(otherwise she might get angry and hang up)and see if that works
Now with situation number 2 I would talk to Josh and tell him that he might need to see a doctor about 'trying to kil himself'because it is a worry.I would also try to comfort him when oyu are aroun him because that would make him feel less threatened.If you keep haing the nightmares it might be a good idea to see a docter or councelor about it to help you deal with the stress.
I hope this advice has been helpful and if you would like to ask another question feel free to ask
bye xoxoxox
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Hello,
I really need someone to talk to and be friends with.Please contact me.
Molly (link)
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hello
well you can talk to me and i dont mind being friends with you.Whats the problem
Sam
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so i have this friend, we'll call her sally. well sally and i have been friends since 6th grade, we are now in 11th grade. in 8th grade we got into a huge fight that lasted like 6 months. we haven't really gotten into any huge fights since then, but lately she has been treating me like shit. she acts like im not even a friend to her. although i do nothing wrong to her. EVER. im never rude to her. im ALWAYS there for her. shes never there for me when i need someone the most. she gets mad at her "best friend" well call her suzie, well they've been friends for a while but suzie always ditches her and is rude. and she gets mad, complains to me about it. she has no idea how she acts to me but everytime i try to talk to her about it she gets mad at me and turns it all around on me. she is not mad at me, wont talk to me. yet we were fine this morning. i have NO idea what to do. please help me (link)
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Well she shouldnt be treating you like that if she is your friend.I would talk to her about it and see what she says.If she blows you head off then she might not be the best friend to have.Also if she says she will stop treating you like shit but keeps it up i would talk to her agan about it but if it happens a third time i wouldnt be able to stand it,i would have to say to her that we could still be friends but maybe not hang aroungd with each other.Another good thing to try is to ask her if she wants to have a little break for about a week or so and see how that works out.
I hope this advice was helpful and ai also hope that things work out.
bye xoxox
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