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This guy confuses me...
I am a freshman in college, and there is this guy in two of my classes who absolutely confuses me, and I have never dealt w/ or heard of anyone quite like him before. I have to deal with him some b/c one of the classes we're in together does a lot of group work.
He's older, like 27 and he's been in college once, got bad grades, and came back. Some of the faculty in my dept. said he got bad grades b/c he partied too much, slept around, and took a lot of drugs, but I've heard rumors around campus that he got kicked out for being a stalker. But in class, he's really stand-offish to me and every other girl, but me especially because I said something in class about being a Christian. Like he'll talk to the guys in the class, but not the girls. When I asked him if he had a problem w/ me being a Christian, he said "Look, I only want to get along w/ you well enough to pass this class; I don't want to know you once this class ends b/c Christian chicks and I never work out as friends." A lot of the people who've known him from when he was here before go on and on about how nice and smart he is, and he seems to be-to the guys. Since I'm a theater major, sex comes up a lot, and this guy has proclaimed him "post-sexual" (whatev that means) and says that he'll never have sex again. Since when do guys say that?
From everything I've described, what on earth is up w/ this guy, do you think?
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I think he sounds fine. Everyone has different personalities, and apparently so does he.
There is nothing wrong with coming back to college. If at first you don't succeed, try again ;) Whether he was kicked out or dropped out really isn't any of your (or anyone else's) business. If the stalking rumors are true [which I doubt], then unless/until it becomes a personal problem or threat to you, don't concern yourself with it.
What he does or has done in bed isn't really anything to concern yourself with. Maybe he is an attention-seeker. Which is why he says things that he does. If it bothers you, you don't have to talk to him. You can do what he says, and just get along with him as much as needed for school. Why he doesn't get along with Christian girls is beyone me. But maybe he has just had some bad experiences with overly preachy girls. If that's the case, and you really care enough to prove him otherwise, don't bring up religion. Maybe he just doesn't believe in the same things you do, and there isn't anything wrong with that.
I think unless you are wanting to start a friendship with this guy, you should't worry about it. People are different, and unless it's effecting you, the reason for his odd behavior shouldn't really matter.
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