Question Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 10:00 pm
okay so a friend has been like really shady for a couple months and i know it aand we werent close for like ever and one day she randomly told me something bad involving one of my good friends and told me not to tell them and im like uhh okay? but i told my friend anyway becuase i thought it was the right thing to do she would be hurt if she knew i didnt tell her. then the shady friend yelled at me for it and now were in a big fight. i still think i did the right thing, but did i?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? bearit11 answered Sunday September 28 2008, 7:35 pm: well it's a hard choice, but i'm not one to tell you if you're wrong or right. you tried to keep a secret to the shady friend, but you were more loyal to your other friend.
maybe you shouldn't have told your good friend because she could've found out by something else.
but your shady friend shouldn't be talking bad about your good friend in the first place.
it's sort of a messy situation in the begining, but there is really no wrong or right choice in it. either way someone would have won, or lost. [ bearit11's advice column | Ask bearit11 A Question ]
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