I'm Erin. 14 years old and a freshmen at Anthony Wayne High School. My friends say I'm amazing at advice, so why not help everyone else. I'm here all the time, so ask me for advice about something, and you'll get your answer in a day at latest.
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my ex is trying to get back with me. i don't know if i should or not he/she says it will be different. but i dont know what to think. i don't want to rush into anything that i'm not ready for, and i'm still uncertain for. i don't want to completely give up this chance, because what if it never comes again. im scared what other people will think even though it doesnt matter about them but still its more of what my group of friends, that sounds bad but everyone will give me mean comments. please help i need to make a choice and i dont know how (link)
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well, just talk over everything with your friends and your ex. if he wants to get back together, you don't want it to go wrong like the last time, so get everything straight between you two, and when youthink everything is okay; then go for whatever you feel is best for you. talk to your group of friends about it. if they get defensive about it, then back up what you say, but don't let anything get out of hand into a fight. your friends just care about you. take a few days to think about what is right for you. but don't take forever, because this COULD be the chance of a life time, and you shouldn't throw an opportunity like that away. just talk everything over with your friends, becuase if you care what they think, then they should be able to have a say in it too.
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okay so a friend has been like really shady for a couple months and i know it aand we werent close for like ever and one day she randomly told me something bad involving one of my good friends and told me not to tell them and im like uhh okay? but i told my friend anyway becuase i thought it was the right thing to do she would be hurt if she knew i didnt tell her. then the shady friend yelled at me for it and now were in a big fight. i still think i did the right thing, but did i? (link)
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well it's a hard choice, but i'm not one to tell you if you're wrong or right. you tried to keep a secret to the shady friend, but you were more loyal to your other friend.
maybe you shouldn't have told your good friend because she could've found out by something else.
but your shady friend shouldn't be talking bad about your good friend in the first place.
it's sort of a messy situation in the begining, but there is really no wrong or right choice in it. either way someone would have won, or lost.
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