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Just too afraid...
yea.. I actually have a reason why I do not want to talk to him its because I am scared I will bother him and I do not want him to think that I am jeolous about him getting into a relationship, trying to interfere in his relationship and I do not want him to think that I like him.
I actually have had feelings for him before and I told him about it 4 years ago, and he started to avoid me even though he told me that he likes me and he had mixed feelings. Sometimes I really wonder does he not have a little feelings that he likes me cause he treats me really good for example when I was clubbing with him and his friends just 3 months back, I was drunk and I went to the dance floor to dance. I got dizzy and heading alone to our table to rest, and he saw me walking off alone from the dance floor. He followed me and he told me to hold his hand tightly while he leads the way to our table. Actually, up until now my feelings have developed more than just like but I always deny that I do not have feelings for him already cause I do not want him to avoid me again. He even told me that he thinks that he will not suit me as a boyfriend and he even asked me what type of guys do I like just 3 months ago. But I didn't know he will end up in a relationship with my friend(I am not close with her) last month. I am not sure whether he was hinting me or something cause I am really afraid the same thing will repeat again which will ruin our friendship over again. That's why I just keep the feelings to myself and not letting him know about it that I still love him up until today.
Thanks for the advice, but I really want to be there for him when he needs me... its just that I do not know when is the right time to be there for him cause now I think all his problems he will definetely share it with his girlfriend already...
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Hi,
I kind of figured it was something like that. That's tough. It's hard to be around someone you have strong feelings for and watch them be with someone else. Everyone has been thtough it.
You're probably right. I'm sure he suspects that you would be uncomfortabe with the situation with his girlfriend because you told him how you felt. I think he trying to spare your feelings because he cares about you.
However, you don't know where this relationship is going with this girl. You don't know if it's going to last or not. So, my advice to you would be, for now to try and keep your feelings in check and just be his friend. Just show him that everything is the same. He'll come around. You don't have to mention anything about how you feel. YOu might be right about him distancing himself further.
He's not going to forget what type of friend you are. It's alright if there's a seperation right now and I know you want more. Don't give up hope. You never know what might happen.
Like they say girlfriends come and go friends are forever. She can't take that away. Keep me informed.
Always,
Ediemarie
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