|
i hate how much i love you
Heyy! please answer this, im so confused on what to do and i need to handle this situation.
the first boy ive ever loved, kissed, gone out with, all of that is still in my head. we started daitng 3 years ago (wer both 14 now) and hes been in my head ever sense. i know he feels the same way and its scary because no matter how many times we break up we aways go back to eachother. it feels like we were destined to be together. and ithink we might be eventually. but...
whenever we have a relationship it gets so serous that im scared to even talk to him. if i do, we flirt nonstop, make all of these plans, and im scared where ittle leade. ive never been able to really get over him, i get butterflys just looking at him and i know he feels the same way. but i dont want to lose a high school experience by being with him, it hurts to talk to him because i feel it getting more serous and stronger by the minuite, but it hurts not to becayse i miss him so much. and i see him in shcool everyday and he just makes me laugh and hes never broken up with me i always break up with him because i feel myself getting too attached and i get scared and run away. i think i might really love him even though i know its not likely at this age. i know i love the way he makes me feel but icant let myself accept it. and he says he dosent want a relationship now but i know i could talk him into it but im not sure whats best. do you think theres a way i could really get over him? not talking to him isnt really an option, it would just be really awkward. hes in my classes so i have to see him everyday. i know i could try to get over him, but im not sure how to get over him for good. the second he looks at me or texts me all is lost and i fall for him again. please help
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Its virtually impossible to get over someone you see every day unless anger is involved. Basically, you have to not want them anymore in pretty much any way. Then seeing them reinforces anger.
Point being, you probably can't just get over him.
Also, a small point.
The "High School Experience" is pretty overrated. Everyone has a different trip, but as someone who HAD a pretty interesting experience, it wouldn't have been ruined by having the same girlfriend rather than several as I did.
You love him. It happens. The "plan making" thing is normal. When you're with someone it makes you think about the future, and eventually you both talk about what you think. Just realize that its all a fantasy and make sure he knows too. Statements like "I think I'll get married sometime after I turn 25" are a good general way to let him know that you aren't going to be engaged during or right out of high school.
]
More Questions: |