i just told my boyfriend that I've been with for a year and three months that i made out with my ex who he hates and he broke up with me he took me back but still doesn't know how he can ever trust me again what should i do?
i was with him yesterday and we were having a great time and then he just got all down
i the fact that i cheated on him and i know he would never do it to me
i don't know why i did it
i don't have any feelings for my ex anymore i lost those feelings when i broke up with him
please help me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Friday June 26 2009, 9:26 pm: Hey there,
you made a big mistake and im not here to judge you,but youve realised that admitted it and owned up and apologised that takes alot of courage and alot of girls dont do that.
would you blame him for not feeling like he can trust you?
how would you feel if the roles were reversed?
he seems like a very forgiving person for taking you back,but just understand that its gonna take some time for him to come to terms with it and move on and feel like hes able to trust you.
theres not much you can do only keep reminding him how sorry you are,proove your trust to him.
if hes chosen to take you back then hes trying very hard and willing to get over this.
tell him how greatful you are for it,and let him know that you do aprciate him espically when he gets down.
make him feel like you value him and respect him because he is probably starting to doubt all this.
thats really All the advice I can give you,
your lucky to have your boyfriend I do hope you realise that not alot of theese situations end up like this, but atleast youve learned from it and know not to do it again,
Good luck,dont beat yourself up too much already youve suffered the guilt and regret now its time for you to try move on from this too. whats done is done.
Hope I helped =)
Much <3
Jess [15/f] [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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