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adopted
hi,im a 16 about to turn 17 soon and my whole life i've known i was adopted.me and all of my older brothers(there's 3 of them) are all adopted from different families and live with the wolrd's greatest parents.but being adopted to me is a hude deal.i don't look anything like the peoeple who adopted my and i need to know who my real parents are.my whole life i've always thought about it and now it's starting to destryoy me.knowing where and who i came from is the most important thing to me and i feel as if everyone esle knows bc there are not adopted.my parents that i live with mow say they will not tell me anything and they hide the truth from me anyways.they're afraid that if i discover who i am and my real parensta that i will stop loving them but i will never do that.i told them this but it didn't do anything
i must know bc i'll spend the rest of my life thrying to find them no matter what.and bc my parents that i live with now don't tell me i had to break a couple rules(laws)just to get some info!i know that my real parents might not want anything to do with me but i just need to know.it's like my life is a book and there's chapters missing in it.i don't even know who iam or who they where
i need this like people need air to breath without it i fell as if im already dead.please help me find who i am
(p.S. don't tell me that the people that im living with are just trying to protect me bc they are lieing to me and it's not protecting me but pushing me away.i know what the worst situation could be and im ready to face it.after all what could be worse than being an orphan when your young)thanks
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Explain to your adoptive parents that they are the only family you've ever known, so there is no way that you could stop loving them. You would just like to open your heart to new people, people that can explain your missing 'chapters'.
It couldn't hurt if you referred to them more often as your parents, instead of 'the people that i'm living with'. They're more your family right now than your biological family.
When you're 18, I'm sure you'll be allowed to look at your birth records, but there really isn't much you can do until then. Ask your family, talk it out, and then respect the answers you get, until you can get different ones.
Don't hurt the people you have now, by making them feel like they aren't good enough.
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