So, there is a very nice boy in my grade, and he has always been very kind to me. But, over the summer i started talking to him on IM, and well he wont stop talking to me!! I don't want to block him or ignore him because he is really nice, but I don't know how to tell him to shut up! Also i think he might have a crush on me, and it seems like he always knows my business. Also, he looks at pictures of me on my camp website, and tells me he likes to look at the ones of me in my bathing suit, i think hes trying to be nice and that he has good intentions but i feel like hes taken it too far. how do i let him down easy??
I mean, he's young and honest and doesnt know any better, but thats still pretty creepy.
Looking up pictures of you in a bathing suit and telling you about it. Be honest, let him know that makes you uncomfortable (even if it doesnt, he needs to learn that the way he's approaching it isnt really ok) and so on and so forth. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
fonzie answered Tuesday September 9 2008, 8:35 pm: I would probably flirt with other guys right in front of him. Or you could talk to him about a handsome boy you like while on MSN or just in person (I'd make it a fairly buff guy so that he doesn't fight to get you). I am a male and this would get rid of me. [ fonzie's advice column | Ask fonzie A Question ]
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