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how to get a guy to like you/ask you out
ok so ive had a crush on this guy and he dosent even no i exist so is there anyway that i can get his attention and get him to ask me out?
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Seeing as I'm not a guy myself, I'll give you a link to an answer by an actual guy!
Here's a helpful answer of my friend, Jack's:
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From there:
"First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =]."
Hope it helps ;]
-Laura (16-f)
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Well, trust me, its pretty easy. The way i started getting my crush to notice me was by commenting on his shoes! Guys think its cute when a girl brings up something random and spazzy. try it out!
~katwashala
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You will probably have to talk to him to
get him to notice. Start small by just smiling
at him and saying hi. If that doesn't work,
then ask him about homework in a class you
share or something like that. :)
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